Finances while Grieving

Effectively Handling Finances While Grieving

One of the most vulnerable human experiences is mortality. Understandably, many of us may feel unprepared to lose a loved one. There may have been much left unsaid, or maybe too much painfully said, when they were alive. Either way, the finality of death forces some practical aspects to get clear, if not instantly, then…

Record Your Order

Record your Order

For some, probate is about protecting family property. To keep everyone clear on who owns what, you’ll want the county’s ownership records updated. Perhaps you’ve just arrived near the end of probate, and have an Order for Final Distribution in your hands. Let’s get right to the point. Your court might issue an order, but…

Inheriting a Foreclosure

Biggest Concerns When a Probate Includes a Property in Foreclosure Proceedings Family deaths are never easy. Not only are you faced with loss, but you’re often faced with having to sort through the legal process necessary to settle an estate. One large asset that is normally included in a will is a house. Since houses are…

Helping Children Say Goodbye

Helping children say goodbye

Have you wanted to comfort a survivor, yet felt befuddled, hesitating to intrude awkwardly on someone’s sorrow? Does the distance feel wider when the survivor is a child? Luckily, some kind and creative folk have illustrated and authored books about death and loss for children. My favorite is The Dead Bird, by Margaret Wise Brown (of Good Night Moon fame), illustrated by…

Being Mortal

Being Mortal by Atul Gawande

Probate is a long and frustrating process. Difficult on its own, probate is further complicated by its proximity to grieving and end-of-life complexities. I’ve found that those who prepared well for death also prepared well for inheritance and other post-death concerns. I wanted to be prepared too, but I didn’t know where to start. Thankfully Atul Gawande,…